For men, it is traditional (but also very conservative) to take initiative and to take the first step in a relationship, someone first to get down on a knee and ask to pop the big question. However, we are living in modern times, and it is completely fine for women to take matters into our hands. Based on research from dating services, it is time for women to move steps and start taking control.
1. Women do not need to wait for qualified friends to appear
Prince Charming is not going to manifest himself out of thin air. People often send more messages than women on dating sites, and this technique is known as “fishing”. The more messages you send, the better possibilities are of some “catching” in the sea!
However, we all know that the quality is better than the quantity, and women spend a lot of time, who are waiting for someone, which is eligible to reach them. Instead, women should stop waiting for that first message and be sufficient to send and start the conversation.
2. People love it when women contact them before
The more messages you receive on dating apps, the more they send back in return. For this reason, women are more likely to get a response from a man if they jump and take that first step. It also means that all the power is in the hands of the woman. They can choose how to start interaction instead of dealing with I-roll-qualified pickup lines.
3. Women are likely to land on the land of a better man
Depending on the Okcupid data, people usually reach someone who they consider more attractive to them. Friends have no problem shooting for anyone out of their league, so why can’t women take the initiative and make sure that they only talk to Hux? Appearance is not the only perk – by choosing first, women can make sure that they have a holistic more attractive friend.
